soundslikeaaronagain

It’s a Saturday night in and I find myself looking through friends who I have made in school, college and University and I see something similar within all of them.

Looking on these peoples facebook pages I have come to realise that they all have at least one of these characteristics:

• They are engaged to be married
• They are expecting a child any time soon
• They are all moving into their own homes and are planning to have a mortgage

Now I cannot have a dig at these people because they have made their own personal choices and I respect that and I’m sure that they are happy with their lives and choices they have made. I wish them nothing but the best in the future and if anything I have alot of respect for them all. 

But what people have to realise is I am not like them and if you know me at all you will know I don’t want any of the above in my life, EVER (apart from maybe one). This may come as a shock but let me explain myself and make you understand my thinking/myself. 

If I was in a long relationship I would not for a second think about marriage mainly because I feel marriage is mainly for people who are religious and fear the wrath of the almighty person in the clouds called GOD. This may sound blunt but if you don’t go to church and are NOT religious but decide to get married in a church with a vicar you are THE biggest fucking hypocrite ever, I’m sorry it’s true.

Myself as you can tell not being religious in anyway, shape or form, I don’t think I will ever need to get married. If you are in a happy long relationship why put that relationship through the stress and worries of money to pay for one day in your life. If I was to do anything I would use the money I would have spent on my wedding day and spent it on making LOADS of smaller life long memories which would have been shared between only the two of us. Those memories will mean SO much more to us both and we would only know about them. Little things like holidays and day trips and just doing things the two of us would remember and would mean alot to us.

Secondly I would only think about having children in the future If I had the following things in my life:

1. Be in a happy long relationship with someone I truly loved
2. Have a well paying, full time job to support my family
3. Be at least the age of 30-35 years old

I feel people have children at a young age and you have to realise ‘you are only young once’. Go out and make your dreams happen, go and travel the world, do all the things you said you wanted to do when you were younger. If I started a family and kept having the thoughts of “I wanted to do this” or “I wish I’d have done that” or “if only I’d done that” I know I would have not fulfilled my life and I would have regrets in my own choices.  So don’t be expecting a little mini Aaron in the world anytime soon expect a mini Aaron when I’m good, happy, fulfilled and ready.

Lastly a mortgage and having my own house. This one is plain and simple I will NEVER get a mortgage or have one in my life. I feel they tie you down in life, once you have one your stuck in the same city paying it off for 30-40 years or however long you have on it. I lived in four different houses at university, I like to travel around and see different places in the world. I get bored being sat a desk job after an hour or so I have to stand up and wander around. I would much rather rent somewhere to live so that I have the freedom to move around and be able to up and move whenever I wanted to. 

SO here ends my little rant about life and why I am not normal and why I don’t fit into what society deems fit and wants me to be. Maybe this blog is me telling myself that above is what my life will always be, maybe I actually subconsciously want everything that I don’t want in life who knows. All I know is that you won’t expect to hear of how I found the one, got married, had kids and got a mortgage all before I turn the age of 30 because it WON’T happen.

I hope anyone who reads this blog post will agree with me on some things or will at least understand what I mean and where I’m coming from. Please don’t think if you have any of the above listed things I am having a go at you, you have made your own choices in life and I respect those choices. We all live our lives differently and I cannot judge or have a go at you for that. 

Oh and thank you for taking the time to read this all, have a gold star *places gold star on you* :D :D

Let me just say this about the new Paramore news for the album track-listing, I couldn’t give a flying FUCK what the songs are called all that matters is the music, STOP FUCKING MOANING, your lucky the band have stuck around in the first place.

If the songs titles were like below (see list below) I would STILL buy the album as the titles mean fuck all just look at the band Every Time I Die’s song title names and their albums are ALWAYS awesome.

Here’s my ideal Paramore album song title list:

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